Cedar Wooder

You are looking at me because you know what you need. You are ready to realize it in the flesh. A listening ear, a gentle touch, a solid plan, a thoughtful conversation, a confidant for your grief, joy, & curiosity. Your angel in an era of strife, able to create a moment of relaxation where we can embody desire together.

Companionship & kink have always been my life’s calling. This is my 13th year in this work. I am a well-traveled, studious practitioner of pleasure, pain, & the sublime who welcomes all gender expressions & fantasies. I adore welcoming back old friends & enticing those with an appreciation for beauty, sensation, & play.

With me, you are at ease as I engage in sensuality with eagerness & meticulous, unwinding passion. Lithe & androgynous, I am a female-to-male transsexual, ever in delight of the sinew, sweat, & sensation of my body—on testosterone, top surgery only, tattooed, freckled, & with lush body hair. I have equal experience across the spectrum of gender and you will be delighted with how adept I am at tending to your curiosity. I am at home in the world & offer an energy of warmth in all ways.

People and their ways intrigue me. I’ll be curious to learn about what makes you tick & attentive to how we curate our time together. My attraction to connection is reflected in my habits with you: plenty of direct communication free from the trappings of attention-economy technologies. Our time together is a step into intention & attention that is best done in darkened theaters, steamy bathhouses, or back to a room for ourselves.

My favorite dates are extended sessions where we can take our time with one another & when I am brought together with other companions.

Those who seek to explore a dynamic over time, desire an attentive companion for a relaxing social affair/vacation, or have a clear picture of a specific scene they wish to run will find themselves in good hands with me— again & again & again.

Expectations on health + hygiene: The manner in which we participate in social activities reflects the times we live in—I enjoy dates to take in films, live performances, museums, conventions, aquariums, shopping excursions, dining al fresco, and travel while wearing masks that provide filtered respiration (KN95, N95, or higher) in public spaces. Please take extra care to shower, clip nails, brush teeth, douche (if your desires demand), & test for airborne illness before we meet.

Welcoming all bodies
Fantasy & kink friendly
BDSM + EMDR trained, dis/ability informed
Fly Me To You/Train Me To You
Bespoke arrangements considered
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